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		<title>Professional and Personal Leadership for Today</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2009 09:14:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Smith</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[“If you limit your choices only to what seems possible or reasonable, you disconnect yourself from what you truly want – and all that is left is a compromise. It’s your call.”
Effective leadership, both personally and professionally, will take many forms. But at its core, it necessarily includes the ability to:

Articulate a strategy – for [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“If you limit your choices only to what seems possible or reasonable, you disconnect yourself from what you truly want – and all that is left is a compromise. It’s your call.”</p>
<p>Effective leadership, both personally and professionally, will take many forms. But at its core, it necessarily includes the ability to:</p>
<ul>
<li>Articulate a strategy – for yourself and the Organisation</li>
<li>Establish guiding principles</li>
<li>Make decisions quickly, efficiently and effectively</li>
<li>Earn the trust of people, include them in the process, treat them fairly, keep them informed and above all else communicate effectively</li>
<li>Keep yourself, people and hence the organisation focussed on the positive outcomes</li>
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<p>Therefore we believe a definition of Leadership could be -</p>
<p>“To maximise the expectations, the positive hope of the outcomes that come from change – while minimising the fear of change for those involved.”</p>
<h2>And the 10 Ways to be your Best are</h2>
<ul>
<li>Ask yourself – am I fulfilled</li>
<li>Reflect on what you really want to do and achieve</li>
<li>Devise a Strategy to achieve your goals</li>
<li>Work hard at that strategy – right now</li>
<li>Identify and overcome limiting patterns and thoughts</li>
<li>Don’t be dissuaded or sidetracked</li>
<li>There is no success without hard work</li>
<li>If needs be, seek a mentor or motivating coach</li>
<li>When you succeed, reward yourself</li>
<li>Be proud and celebrate in the new you!</li>
</ul>
<h2>So what do we do – what is our Intent – to facilitate this focussing &amp; clarity?</h2>
<p>“What do we do? Well it’s all about People – Strategy Development and Execution. Managing transition, we work with Business Owners, Executives and Managers to get them to where they really want to be.</p>
<p>As Goalkeepers we don’t kick the goals – we work with them on how to kick. We re-focus, plan and then keep them on track to achieve their goals.</p>
<p>We recognise and respect that in life, we can only realise meaning and purpose, when we know, that our dreams are directions, and our minds are our means. Success is indeed a journey, not a destination. We also know quite well that without a plan, we are tourists.</p>
<p>We firmly believe it is the greatest mistake of all to do nothing – because then you can only do little. But first you must know for which harbour you are headed, if you are to catch the right wind to get you there.</p>
<p>Importantly we have to go for what we think we&#8217;re fully capable of, not limit ourselves by what we&#8217;ve been in the past.</p>
<p>We fervently maintain, that as adults, we have a responsibility to:</p>
<ul>
<li>find our area of specialty</li>
<li>develop it into an area of excellence</li>
<li>apply it to the benefit of others</li>
<li>believe in what we are doing and believe in who we are.&#8221;</li>
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		<title>The Executive Mentor – the Goalkeeper – an Interview</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 09:03:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Paul Smith</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Business Coaching and Mentoring]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Career Coaching and Mentoring]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Executive Coaching]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[“In the space of a fortnight, six different people told Paul Smith they were having a horrible time in their executive jobs. One told him that he wanted to resign forthwith. Another confessed to just having endured the worst month of his business life. A prominent Family Business owner said: “I just want to give [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“In the space of a fortnight, six different people told Paul Smith they were having a horrible time in their executive jobs. One told him that he wanted to resign forthwith. Another confessed to just having endured the worst month of his business life. A prominent Family Business owner said: “I just want to give up and sell up – it’s all too hard.”</p>
<p>These were not Paul’s employees, bosses or friends. They included corporate or government leaders, business owners and executives who engage him as a business mentor (and coach) and who felt free in a one-to-one setting, to confess how they were really feeling about their jobs. Big pay packets and titles are no buffer to human needs and emotions.</p>
<p>It’s a cliché, but life at the top really can be lonely or isolating, says Paul, because few employees can imagine that their “superiors” might sometimes feel vulnerable and bewildered. He’s been there too!</p>
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<p>Few employees realise that they might lock their bosses into a projection in which they become a figment of someone else’s imagination, he says. “Leaders can be ascribed all sorts of motives and circumstances that they just don’t want to have.”</p>
<p>As an executive goalkeeper™ and Chief Executive of the Carnegie Management Group, the Sydney-born Smith, 55, is hired by leaders to be the “deep, tough friend”, with whom they can develop enough trust and rapport to allow them to navigate the issues of leadership – both personally and professionally -hired by both the organisation and the individual alike.</p>
<p>“They benefit by getting stuff off their chest. I often find myself caring for people that others don’t care for. If we can talk about an issue and then isolate the source, we can then work with it”, Paul says.</p>
<p>He also leads workshops on the question of how to bring more meaning, more heart, into a working life. He individually mentors employees who have suddenly been elevated into tough new roles – or help them to get there.</p>
<p>“Not everyone is immediately perfect for a new job, so I help them to get the job under their belt.”</p>
<p>He is well qualified for this role, as he has experienced these dynamics first hand over the earlier part of his career. Graduating from Sydney University as a Bachelor of Economics he rose through the ranks of the Oil Industry with a heavy bias towards Marketing, Corporate Planning and profit centre accountabilities involving “big numbers” he proudly says. These General Management roles were followed by senior executive roles in the Logistics Industry.</p>
<p>Paul therefore understands workplace pressure and the need to perform – particularly in a multifunctional role that requires the leadership of managers.</p>
<p>However then his transition occurred, shifting his passion to work with the “real people”, he says. Hence his drive to assist executives as their third party support base, their work colleague “removed”.</p>
<p>“Sometimes I used to recruit them, so my background, by definition, also involved career transition.” he says. “But then my focus shifted and I became more interested in what was happening to individuals, rather than what was happening to organisations in the first instance. Hence clients also include business owners in their own right. They are no different!”</p>
<p>As an <em><strong>Executive Goalkeeper™</strong></em> Paul consults with men and women from all walks of life, in those existing leadership roles – including those aspiring to leadership – <em>“by bringing another way of looking at things that should matter.”</em></p>
<p>The ability to seamlessly transfer from mentor to coach is the cornerstone for him, and for them.</p>
<p>Some of the relationships, conducted in regular two-hour meetings that encourage reflection and feedback, have lasted for years. “Human change doesn’t happen overnight.” This includes empathy, passion for the job, future vision, life balance and vulnerabilities.</p>
<p>The soft stuff is that which allows connection to the client and to the colleagues. It allows connection on the basis of feedback. A simple example: asking a client how they feel.</p>
<p>It allows people to reveal their vulnerability to him and, in some cases, to employees. “It’s a risky phrase nowadays,” he says, “but to get to empathy with employees and clients, a person has to do an awful lot of hard, intimate work on themselves, particularly the leader.</p>
<p>“It sounds benign, but it is necessary for leaders to do the soul searching that brings them back to the specifics and that leads to new insights.”</p>
<p>This then culminates in goal setting, milestones and ongoing review – particularly important in an ever-changing world. However as far as possible, stick to the game plan he says.</p>
<p>“They do have to be willing to fumble and to get to the fuzzy edges where they discover something and create new models and potentials. Also they need to be able to embrace new behaviours perhaps. Followers pick up on the authenticity of the leader.”</p>
<p>Coming from such long experience within corporate Australia, Paul now sees here a rather adolescent working culture that is under-confident and that still emphasises skill-based competency above all else.</p>
<p>“Most people tell me their organisation is only interested in their competencies, when what they really want to feel is some more purpose in their work.”</p>
<p>“Some of the briefs I’ve had from organisations have requested me to help people to bring more of their heart to work. They want to know how to breathe life into their work.”</p>
<p>This can happen if an organisation permits and nurtures whole human beings at work. “When that occurs, and an individual starts to seek more meaning, they become more creative, passionate, engaged and empathetic. They are happier and more fulfilled,” he says.</p>
<p>This is an adult working culture where there is a balance between work and culture and where “love” does play a part. The baby boomers (executives) are moving into adulthood (parenthood) at work and they are beginning to deal with issues of “generativity” and care.</p>
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